Men and women are geared up differently and here are seven things that a woman wants which will help towards a sexually intimate relationship of satisfaction and happiness for couples.
1. Connect Emotionally before Physically: Generally, a woman is geared up more emotionally sensitive, and intuitive than a man, so the first step before sexual intimacy is emotional intimacy with her man. If that is lost, she is rarely interested in sex. While a man may not be aware of her deeper anxieties, thoughts, or feelings, it is important that he connects with her on an emotional level first, and then enter into a physical relationship. A woman will value and adore her partner if he nurtures her strongly in an emotional relationship, listens to her thoughts and feelings. He needs to learn to listen to her without cutting her off, offers sympathy, because this stirs up a renewed passion for their sexual connection and enables her to be ready for a passionate physical relationship. His love and kindness open her portals to his passion.
2. Women Need to Feel Secure in Their Partner’s Appreciation: In a world of competition with the figure of 8 beauties strolling around, a woman has to be appreciated for what she is, and how she looks, that she is accepted and loved just as she is. While it might help in her image buildup and performance, she could work on dropping a few kilos if she is overweight or do things to enhance her looks in the ways she can. The way she feels physically about herself enriches physical intimacy and performance. At the same time, it is important she knows that to him she is beautiful.
3. An Atmosphere of Relaxation is Key for Sexual Intimacy: Women in highly stressed times will not want to have sex. If she is worried about something, she cannot think of having sex. Grabbing her and initiating sex when she is heaped up in anxieties, lost a loved one, is cooking, working, or worried about something will only get a rebuff because her mind is not prepared. While men want sex to de-stress, it is different for women. They want sex after they de-stress!. It is important to create an atmosphere of romance, in a beautiful scenic setting, a drive out, with the scent of roses or perfume lingering around, and romantic innuendos to spark off the passion. Sometimes, a man brings home flowers, gifts, or even goes out to dinner with their woman, and all this creates an atmosphere favorable for sexual intimacy.
4. Let Her Communicate her Sexual Preferences of What Turns Her On: Many women will find themselves uncomfortable explaining what they want sexually, but in time, they may discover what they like and prefer, the positions they like, and the foreplay and stimulation. For women, fantasizing can help them relax and works its way to the physical act. Her partner can use sexually arousing, exciting words that would help her connect to her own passion and respond.
5. Know Each Other’s Problems and Work on It: It is important to talk about sexual problems if there are any. A man may be experiencing erectile dysfunction and likewise, many women, even younger women undergo vaginal dryness. There are cures for both, medicines for ED and lubricants and creams for vaginal dryness, and both partners can discuss this and work to bringing relief for themselves and each other. Sometimes, women push off men because they go through tremendous pain with vaginal dryness likewise men due to erectile dysfunction, keep away from sex. Both couples start to misunderstand each other due to this. The more couples communicate, the closer they get.
6. A Women Needs Afterplay Too: Most women complain that after sex, a man turns over and snores himself to sleep and the woman feels rejected and used. In her mind, just after the most intimate moment they had, he had nothing more to say to her and felt used when he turned his back to her after sex. She needs him to still talk to her and lavish his adoration on her. While it may not be in his design to do so, he could still speak to her for a while and then sleep off, not he needs to be sensitive not to do so instantly.
7. A Woman Wants to be Loved and “Worshipped”: A woman does not want to be grabbed only at one place in her body or it makes her feel like an object or a piece of meat. She wants to see the love and adoration in her man’s eyes. A lot of this has to do with the emotional makeup of a woman who is an emotional being. Sex for a woman is a physical and emotional symbol of being loved and cherished. It is not an act of just sex and rollover.